What is a soulmate?
Soulmates are those lovers that as soon as we meet, it’s like we are old friends or old lovers: there is often a lot of passion, a lot of joy and it feels wonderful to be with them. However, after being together for a while, things often start to go wrong, or you feel like you’re in an old family pattern that’s holding you back.
Soulmates are those lovers that we have had as lovers and friends in many previous lives. They are loved, familiar, and often comfortable, but they also often have their own set of unresolved issues, from our times together. This is a wonderful opportunity to resolve and clear karma by solving the problem once and for all. Once you have cleared the karma, you may find that the relationship becomes wonderful and you can live happily ever after. Or you may find that you lose interest, whatever has brought you together for so long seems to have vanished. It’s okay, it just means you got what you wanted and now it’s time to move on.
What is a twin flame?
Twin Flame is literally your other half. This is the being that separated from you at the beginning of your journey, thousands and thousands of years ago. It has always been very rare for Twin Flames to meet here on Earth; however recently, as part of our journey back to the Light, an increasing number of lightworkers are reuniting with their Twin Flame to join forces and unite the world.
Of course, everyone wants to be with their Twin Flame! It is a romantic ideal, your perfect other half. You assume that everything will be fine when that happens. But in reality, you are still two people here on earth, no matter how well connected you are, so you will still have issues to deal with and the relationship will still require devotion and work.
Also, you cannot assume that you are destined to meet your twin flame here. It may not be part of your path. It is perfectly wonderful to resolve any relationship issues you may have and find and connect with someone who is not your twin flame but a lover who wants to commit to your life together.
Actions to attract your perfect partner
You must clear anything that is blocking you from a wonderful relationship. If you’ve mostly (or only) been in unhealthy, loveless, and unhappy relationships, then chances are there are beliefs buried within you that attract this.
1. Believe and know that you only deserve love
2. Tolerate nothing less than the love you desire.
3. Heal all damage from past relationships
4. Consider and, if appropriate, obtain healing from any past life or childhood trauma.
Once the slate is clean, start focusing on your ideal love. Write about what he/she is like, how he/she thinks, how he/she feels, go into as much detail as you can, take as much time as you can to clarify.
Finally, spend a little time meditating on connecting with him; you will be connecting with his higher self so let him know how you choose to be treated in a relationship and if he is ready for such a relationship then so are you.