When it comes to approaching women, making a good first impression is a must. It’s a fact that if a woman isn’t impressed within the first three seconds of a man’s approach, she’s over for him and he can kiss her goodbye. First impressions are priceless and there is no room for error.
If you really want to impress a woman, stop sweet talking and instead use an opener to start a conversation with her.
What is an opener? Openers refer to words used to start a conversation with a girl in a way that sets you apart from most other guys who have approached her in the past with the same pick-up lines.
types of openers
Below I will provide some examples of 3 different types of openers that have been proven to work to attract women. Enjoy!
direct openers
I’m a big fan of straight openers. They are much more natural and work very well on women. Direct openers show women that you’re not afraid to approach them and talk to them, and that takes courage.
Hi, you looked adorable, so I had to come meet you.
Hey, how’s it going?
Hey, I’m going out to meet people tonight, what’s your name?
Can I ask you a quick question? You are single?
opinion opener
Opinion openers are one of the best devices for approaching women. Many times women will take the way you open up very seriously and will strike up a conversation with you. A classic example of one is “Hey, I have a situation. My friend is friends with his ex, but his girlfriend is mad. What do you think about this?”
Another good is “Hey, I have a friend who is 50 years old. He is in love with a young lady, who is 28. My friend likes her, but he feels that he is overstepping the property lines if he goes after her. What do you think? Should he go after her?
situational opener
A situational opener basically says something about the situation you and your target are in.
Maybe you’re waiting in line at the club, sitting at Starbucks reading the same book as her, or at a concert. Look at the situation and the environment and use it to open it.
My God, I bought my girlfriend a shirt exactly like that… I guess that means you have good taste.
Weren’t you at the (another bar) last week?
Oh my gosh, it’s so fucking loud in here.
Openers can help you build trust and comfort with any girl and that is the secret to attracting her. The above list of examples are simple methods you can use to start attracting just about any woman you want, no matter what she looks like!
