Women love their men to be dominant in bed: they want to be the protagonists and not the other way around. A coward in bed drives away a woman.
You may have the idea that being dominant in bed is being rude and violent with your lady. This is not correct. Being dominant in bed is about more than just slapping her, ripping her clothes off, or trying to subject her to a little bondage… in fact, many women don’t like that.
Instead, you need to know what he likes and how he wants you to lead in the bedroom. The best way to find out is to contact her. Once he knows what she wants, he pushes the boundaries, but never go beyond that unless she’s comfortable with it.
Now let me share with you a few ways to start being dominant in bed and give her a mind-blowing orgasm:
1. Be forceful but kind. You need to know what you are doing. Don’t go around giving him a few pats on the behind. The idea of showing that you are dominant is to let him know that you are in complete control. This can lead to him hitting her, but this comes much later, once trust is gained. Remember, take 100% control and tell him what you want to do next. Don’t let her lead.
2. Know why you want to be dominant in bed. If being dominant in bed is just for your selfish reason (fantasies and visual pleasure) and not her, then I suggest you drop the idea. This is because the reason you dominate her in bed is to pleasure her! When you are dominant, you dominate their emotion. When you can no longer control your emotions while making love, you will have the best sex ever and, of course, an amazing orgasm. Control her with lust, not fear.
3. Take 100% control. This is a complement to the first point. Imagine when you want something so badly, you make it the way you want it, and you take control. In the bedroom, lead her around her by doing things like: pressing her body against the wall, pushing her down on the bed, moving her thighs to the side to show how much you want to have sex with her, etc. Women want their men to lead more than just follow. So take this opportunity to show your leadership and show him what you want him to do.
4. Learn about body language and pay attention to what she wants. Pay attention to his body language to see if he likes what you’re doing. She understands female sexuality and responds to what she wants in bed.
However, you can NEVER be dominant in bed if you can’t last long enough to satisfy your lady. In order to satisfy her during intercourse, you must last at least 5-10 minutes.
Are you lasting long enough? Otherwise, check out the bonus tip below for more information:
