I just started dating a girl: when to start talking dirty?

The answer is ASAP! I can’t stress this enough, but the way you set your sexual mood in the relationship, that’s how it will be. If you don’t communicate to your girl that you’re adventurous in bed, she might think you’re a sexual failure. She may be saving the “good stuff” for later, but what she’s really doing is communicating to him that she can’t give him the mind-blowing sex he craves, RIGHT NOW!

I’m not suggesting that you start with hardcore talking dirty in your first intimate encounter. BUT, I suggest you establish the theme that you are comfortable talking dirty in bed. Start with simple phrases that are universal like: “You’re so sexy when you do this”, “I love how you suck/f**k my ____ gold “It turns me on a lot when you touch me like that.” These are very safe phrases and will not offend anyone. So you are safe. If he seems to like it, you can turn it up a bit.

Don’t be afraid to let him know that you’re comfortable being verbal in bed. Encourage her by talking to you, “Do you like how my _____ tastes?”, “Do you want to feel me deep inside?”

Even if you’re not completely sexual, talking dirty in bed will help you get there sooner. For example, if you are only in the kissing stage, say “I like your hot tongue on me, I can only imagine how good it will feel on my body” and “I want to lick you all over, make you wet for me” or “your body is so hot when it’s pressed against mine, I want to feel our naked bodies touching…ummm, you’re so hot.”

Remember the well-known saying “flattery will get you everywhere”? Well, that includes inside her mouth, vagina, and ass. Talking dirty to your girl for the first time is exciting. You can go crazy with this, if you want. She will most likely love it, unless she is inexperienced or downright prim… And again please I know she’s a new girl and you don’t want to mess things up but PLEASE avoid asking for things! !

DO NOT do this: “Can you please do a “What this communicates is that you’re not sure of yourself. This is the most disgusting thing for a woman! Feel free to be bossy instead:”I want you to do it you are so sexy when you are “.

IN BED WOMEN LOVE DOMINANT MEN!

A little secret: any request followed by a compliment is really hard to resist. if you add “you are so hot/sexy/attractive when you do _____” then she will want to do that even more. Have fun.