One of the most important “rules” for making long-term strict orgasm denial work in a marriage or other relationship is regular and frequent teasing and denial, or “edging.”
After all, men who crave chastity aren’t saying they want to be “locked up and left” when they beg you to take control of their orgasms: what they want is to experience the torturous pleasure of being brought to the brink of orgasm, but not be. allowed to cross it.
For some men, this becomes a permanent fixture of their lives: in other words, their wives permanently withhold their husbands’ orgasms (always with their man’s consent) and instead limit them to strict denials and teasing.
The effect this has on a man cannot be overestimated.
It is deep and does wonders for your entire relationship.
But then the question becomes how do you keep your man interested enough that he is willing to continue letting you withhold his orgasms?
The response to that, in part, is with extreme and even cruel mockery and denial. Now I’m going to share with you three of these techniques, all tried and proven to keep your man permanently on the verge of orgasm, begging you not to let him come:
1. Masturbating with Lubrication
It’s one thing to play with a man’s penis and masturbate it to the brim… but it’s another to use lube to drive him crazy.
Here’s what to do: Liberally lubricate your penis, then circle your thumb and forefinger in a ring and slide it over your head, bringing it down to the root. Pause for a moment, then swipe up again.
The trick to making this almost unbearably torturous for him is to squeeze him hard, harder than you think you can get away with. You won’t hurt him, and the feeling of you sliding up and down like that will drive him crazy.
And just before he comes… you stop, turn the device back on, and he lives to beg for another day.
2. Run with it right inside you.
This requires a lot of skill to pull off and you will most likely have one or two small “accidents” before you get used to it.
First, get him to please you orally so that you cum a few times and you’re nice and wet. Then have him kneel between your legs and let him insert just the tip of his penis inside you.
Then you cum again by stimulating your clit with your fingers or a vibrator (or for real pleasure, have him do it for you).
As you come, he will feel your vagina pulsing and tightening around his penis. He will want to push all the way in and cum… but you just tell him to stop, because cumming is not allowed… ever.
3. Cum with another man
This isn’t for every couple, but logically it’s perfectly reasonable, because why should you go without proper sex and enjoying a man who orgasms with you just because your husband has pleaded with you for chastity?
The secret to making this work is to make sure your husband still feels secure as your “Number One.”
If you can do that, he will be more than pleased to see you make love to another man.
Your special delight will be watching your lover cum inside you, experiencing something he will never be allowed to experience.
This will keep him totally focused on you and your pleasure, as long as you keep his key.
There is much more to cruel mockery and denial, of course, and this is just the beginning.
If you really want to play, it’s just a matter of doing your research and getting the information you need to make an informed decision…
