So suddenly you find yourself broken … and you’re still in love with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Now what? Do you accept defeat and try to move on, or are there ways to stop your breakup before it’s final?
Well, the good news is this: your breakup isn’t permanent until your ex advance emotionally. While he or she still has strong ties and connections to your past relationship, your ex won’t be able to completely get you off your mind.
Playing on the emotional ties formed by your relationship
Do you remember all the good times you had together? The trips you made and the memories you created? Well, your ex remembers these things too. He or she feels exactly the same way you do, when it comes to the good times. The emotional connectedness that you and your ex developed over a long period of time doesn’t dissolve overnight, after you’ve declared your relationship over.
However, recently, the bad times may have outnumbered the good, and your ex may feel like leaving the relationship is the only real answer. Your ex may be bored or tired of fighting, or just feeling neglected by you. In this case, your boyfriend or girlfriend is looking over the fence and wondering if the grass is really greener on the other side.
Making your ex love you again is the only way to get it back. To do this, you need to accentuate the positive aspects of the relationship while constructively trying to eliminate the negative. Constructively, you need to look from the outside honestly at what broke it and what could be changeable. Above all, this should be done without pointing fingers or blaming.
What can you do to make your ex miss you?
The first thing you should do after your ex has broken up with you is to leave them completely alone. For starters, this removes any resentment or resentment that may have developed in the last few weeks of your relationship. It also keeps the two of you apart long enough to cool off, so that when you get back in touch, they will be much more likely to hear each other.
Above all, however, breaking contact is the the best way to make your ex miss you. In breaking up, you have both been faced with the prospect of being alone, and now each of you has a void in your life to fill where the other person used to be. Making your ex miss you makes him want to see you and talk to you again, and on much better terms than you had when you first broke up.
What if your ex has put your relationship on a temporary “breakup”? Stopping the breakout is even easier. In this situation, your boyfriend or girlfriend is looking to see if they can survive without you … but at the same time they are not sure. To ease the pressure, they ask you to stay (in relationship limbo) while they explore the possibility of being single again. Knowing that you are still there gives them the comfort and security of still being separate from you.
Do you want your ex back? Start up. Withdraw completely and stop trying to contact or call your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Let your ex realize that by ending your relationship, you have a good chance of lose you forever. This is not what they want, especially if they asked for a break rather than a breakup.
Other methods that will stop your breakup
In addition to withdrawal techniques, there are other tips and tricks you can use to get your ex immediately interested in you again. There are reversal methods that change the way your ex currently views you, and jealousy techniques that can bring your ex back into your life doing nothing at all.
