Is your ex calling “just to check” on you or suddenly showing up in the same places you are? Have mutual friends mentioned that he or she has asked about you? These are very common signs that your ex is interested in getting you back. So how do you feel about it? If you still love your ex, but the breakup still hurts, you may be wondering, “Did my ex Really You want me back?”
You are right to be cautious. Even if you want to get your ex back, you shouldn’t just get into things. How do you know that he or she won’t leave you again? How do you know you can trust them?
Stay cool and take it easy. Don’t worry that making yourself a little hard to get will drive you away again. If so, then your ex wasn’t really interested to begin with. But if your ex is sincerely interested, making him work for you will only make him want you more. If you give in too quickly or seem too eager, you may find your ex walking out the door. In fact, if your ex is sending signals that he wants to get back together, then chances are it was your apparent ability to be happy on your own that made him do it.
Regardless of who ended the relationship, it’s likely that both of you have experienced moments where you missed each other and wished you were back together, especially if you’ve been together for a year or more. Even if your ex seemed to walk away without looking back, she has had moments where she has missed you. Those memories of the good times you shared, and the bad times you endured together, will appear at the most unexpected times. They tug at the heart and now maybe they’ve got your ex back.
Your ex may also have felt lonely and regretful. Maybe the reason the relationship ended had nothing to do with you. Now she realizes. Now, she sees that she let go of a relationship that actually made her happy. So if you’re wondering, “Does my ex want to get back with me?” You should know that your ex has, from time to time, had the same thought. If they are sending signals, they may have decided to come back to you.
A word of warning, though: sometimes an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend will show interest just to boost their ego. It’s about them, not you. They see that you love them and want to enjoy your attention, but they don’t plan to re-engage with you.
So again, you have to stay calm and take it easy. Make sure that your ex is really interested in being with you. Make sure they aren’t wasting time because they don’t have other perspectives. Also keep in mind that some exes might see you getting back together and then leaving you again to get back at some perceived wrong.
What is the easiest way to check their sincerity? Wait for him to put into words his desire to return to you. And then ask them why? If they were so sure they had a good reason for leaving you, then why change course? In the meantime, don’t be intimate with them. That’s a surefire way to risk getting your heart broken again.
It is very important not to rush. Make sure your ex’s motives are pure before getting back together with him or her.
